Peaceful life??

When shall life be peaceful???

i guess…challenges will always follow us wherever we go…..there are ups and downs in our life….and what we can do….it’s just to make sure that we have enough courage, energy, spirits, confidence and all the positive thingy….this will enable us to go on with life…as “life still goes on”……whatever had happened….had past….we can’t changed anything…the only thing we can do now…it’s to stand up on our feet….stand strong….and make sure that no one can make us fall….hold our hands tightly together…..we will make it….life wouldn’t be peaceful if we don’t make the opportunity for life to be peaceful…..so, think carefully before you do something…think of the consequences….what will happen before and after??? and will you really like the output of the input….or will you regret for what you have done….many people…including me…do things spontaneously….with more feelings and less thinking…maybe we are the feeler…but then….think about it twice….is it worth it to do something emotionally?? or is it better to think properly..the pros and cons of a certain input…..will it be better than just feelings as there are rational thinking, logical thinking, deep thinking (i forgot the name..meta something) and so on…with all types of thinking…or rather…using all your intelligent domains….to make a decision….will it be better?? i guess….i will be better….now, i learn to think twice before i say something…will i say something that will hurt others?? will my decision make others happy?? or will my action make myself happier??? this sort of things….isn’t a problem for me last time…i can make decision based on what i want and what i need….i guess…i really grew up….i learnt to be more mature…guess my moral development had increase to stage 5 or 6…as i was able to think for others now….not to say i didn’t think of others last time….but…i can feel the difference in myself….my feelings and thoughts…my id and superego….trying to balance up each other…thanks to my ego who consciously supporting me….i might have give up from the beginning…but i didn’t…..thanks to my id….for telling me what i really want from life…..thanks to my superego….for reminding me about ethical and moral values……i will for sure….remember all this….although all this should be unconscious….i can feel them now….hopefully you all will find out what you all want in life too….what will really satisfy yourself?? you are the only person that knows what your hearts want….

so, everyone…jia you lo….i also will jia you…dear also jia you….

“together as one”

all the best for everything…

till here…

~Christy~